Its morning. What is the first thing you do? Most people slap the snooze button on the alarm clock and grab a few more minutes of sleep. Then when the alarm goes off again, they're dreading the rise up and the getting out of bed part. This because sleep is enjoyed more than being awake.
Its been said that sleep is the cousin of death. I can see that.
Once you have risen out of bed. What's the next thing you do? You drag yourself to the bathroom to washup. All the while avoiding your reflection because the image in the mirror will stare back at you. Your reflection is a judge. Your reflection can be the worst judge toward yourself mentally, physically and verbally. This may happen daily. You explore your appearance and begin to ridicule yourself. What a great start to a negative day?
There is no coming back from this. The day is already ruined. The rest of your day will consist of bad decisions, tardiness, lack of time, feeling guilt, etc.
To make yourself feel worthy, you do an enormous amount of tasks for others. But it still does not fill the void you have for feeling worthy. You have built up stress, anger, doubt and sadness. Every possible emotion one could possess that is considered to be negative you have. You read motivational blogs and quotes that have worked for others, yet you do not understand why it does not work for you. You have all of the answers but lack the ability of how to apply them to your everyday life, make each stick and work for you. Change only works for you on a yearly basis not day to day. This is --- your normal.
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Its morning. What is the first thing you do? Open your eyes and sit up just ten seconds before the alarm clock sounds. This way you show the alarm clock whose boss. Get out of bed and immediately draw back the curtains. Allow the sun to shine abruptly through your entire bedroom. Stretch to ensure your entire body is fully awake. Then report to the bathroom to prepare yourself for the entire day to come. While you are washing away the bed stains from your face, look at yourself in the mirror and trace the outline of your face reciting how beautiful you are.
Conclude from washing to then head to your closet. Dress yourself in such a fashion that represents who you expect others to view you as. Society is definitely a cruel world to reside in. One may try his/her hardest to live outside of the box but at some point that box is going to be the one place to keep you sane.
All dressed and ready to leave the house. Pose one more time in front of the full length mirror. Ladies, blow a kiss to yourself. Men, lick one finger and smooth out that eyebrow. Then leave your home with your chest out and shoulders broad. Today will consist of whatever you design it to be just by using the inspiration from within your mind. The world is truly your oyster. In fact, whatever you would like to see inside an oyster when you open one, is exactly what you will see. As long as your mind is right, you will never experience sadness, doubt, anger and (or) stress. Actually, you will be questioning what all of that even means? This is --- my normal.
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If none of this makes any sense, then you are probably living the life of the person in the first part of this post.
If you are nodding to every word and smiling then you are probably soaring high like the person in the second part of this post.
Know your worth. If you are comfortable with it, then remain the same. However, if you are not, then make the change. NOW!
How does one make that change?
Only you can figure that out.
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