MPsays, Things We Lose to the New Year.

Written by Mister Promo | January 10, 2016

Last year, someone lit a fire over my world and burned away all matter that served absolutely no purpose. A great deal of matter was destroyed. Let's just say, the only thing left can fit in a one room apartment. Memories have been erased, pictures deleted, jobs replaced. All to make way for what is to come.

I remember 2012. I was excited to graduate from a dead end job, to prosper in a company with professional growth. I remember moving up quite rapidly. From dietary aide, to short order cook, to cook. All promotions I never asked for. Yet upon receiving them, the pay rate would increase. That was a plus.

~ MP ~

Written by Allen Mark | May 20, 2017

All the while I was never happy.  Why was I never happy? Simply put, it was entirely because I was not in control of my own decisions. In fact, I have never been in charge of my own groundbreaking decisions. I have always been forced to do things that have made me feel uncomfortable. All because I lack a man-like backbone.

I am here to confess that this will no longer be an issue for me. Mark my words in this blog post.

"I Am The Ruler Of My Decision Making."

The only reason you find it easy to treat me like a child is because I act as such. I can only pray that you weren't actually fond of that boyish way because that boy died yesterday.

Are you prepared for what is to come?

I guess I don't really care if you are or not.

This is my life and I plan to live it how I see fit.

~ AM ~

Hill Harper, My Voice of Reason.

Written by Mister Promo | March 6, 2017

"The Wealth Cure: Putting Money in Its Place", written by Hill Harper. The reading of The Wealth Cure has really opened my eyes to a new way of thinking. This book was given to me by a close friend as a holiday gift. This was two years ago. Two hundred sixty-four pages of sheer writings regarding wealth and success in various aspects of people's lives. From wannabe actors to jewelry designers and from presidential politicians to working class individuals. This book is a tell all story written in a third-party-conversation-type of style. I believe my favorite part of this book are the quotes that begin each chapter. It really sets the tone in each segment.

Within the past two months I have developed a real appreciation for good reading material. It's been said that "learning never ends with school." I've always known this. I guess I just needed a reminder. Hill Harper has retaught this to me.

Funny thing, when I first received this book I attempted to read it then. I only reached the halfway mark before abandoning it for some unimportant and unmemorable reason. Not completing this book made me feel like a quitter. I couldn't stand having that feeling reside in me. December 26, 2016 I created a list of goals to complete in this year of 2017. One of them was to begin from the beginning of The Wealth Cure and finish reading this book within ten weeks. I completed it in seven.

I would really like to share with you everything I learned but if I do that there will be no reason for you to purchase this book for yourself.

Let me just say this, if you have interest in becoming wealthy, consider your health first. This book has taught me that in order to obtain true wealth I must first take care of my health. I do this and wealth is around the corner.

MPsays, You Are My Reason.

by Mister Promo | January 30, 2016

I woke up today not thinking that this is the first day of the rest of my life, but instead, I awoke believing that this was the first day leading to the end of my life. What do we really know of the ending of time other than what is read in books or watched in films? Not too much, some of us are fearful while others are fully prepared. Some days I am ready while other days I am scared as hell.

I haven't completed nearly as much as I intend. I've only began sailing toward the horizon just last year. I pray to obtain at least nine more voyages. I'll get there. 

This can't be real.  What I'm feeling is all in my head. Mind over matter, mind over matter. I have to remember that. It's all in my head. I'm perfectly fine. Well, maybe not perfect. But I am fine. I should probably talk to someone about this other than expressing it in a blog.

Month one is over. Month two is twenty-six and a half hours away. Where will you be by then? Will you be apart of this world or will you begin to reside in another? I guess only time will tell.

There are times where I feel like giving up. Then I think of you and I remember what this is all for.
I dislike using the word can't, however, this is my only exception. I can't let go, I must hold tight to my dream, my vision, my purpose. Before this all goes away I must succeed. 

Happy Birthday Louis Braille! ! !

by Mister Promo | January 4, 2016

Louis Braille (a. 43)

Inventor

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Louis is from a small town, near Paris, name Coupvray.

At age 3, Louis lost his vision due to a horrible accident involving his father's tools.

At age 12, he became the inventor of a particular style of writing for the blind. This became known as Braille.

"In 1821, a former soldier named Charles Barbier visited the school, (where Louis attended). Barbier shared his invention called "night writing," a code of 12 raised dots that let soldiers share top-secret information on the battlefield without even having to speak. Unfortunately, the code was too hard for the soldiers, but not for 12-year-old Louis!"

At age 20, he published his first book, "Method of Writing Words, Music, and Plain Songs by Means of Dots, for Use of the Blind and Arrange for Them."

Good job, Louis Braille!

Click HERE For Full Bio. 

MPsays, Life Is Passing By.

Written by Allen Mark | November 11, 2015

When you place all of your focus solely on the wrong things, that when the right thing approaches you, they will not stop and wait for you to notice them but simply pass you by.

This happens to me quite often. Whether it be on a job offer, an opportunity to travel, connecting with others on a professional level, or even making the right choice on who to fall in love with. I have hit the snooze button on many occasions that could have changed my life for the better. Which is why I am here stuck in this rut. Mentally believing that, "it is what it is", simply because "it is what it isn't." Or is it?

I know (at times) I can speak in circles and mostly not make any sense. However, bare with me because I promise you that my mind is much more intelligent than the words I may present to you.

What happens when you are fed up with the life you are leading and you do not care to indulge yourself in the same silly antics that you typically perform? 
Stop and evaluate your situation, subtract yourself from the equation and view the situation closer. Place yourself back in and determine what does not work. Then finally consider options of change. What did you get?

I, personally, do not care to sit in solace or drown in the depths of emptiness that is created from within my own problematic mind. I, much rather, would prefer to come up with the best positive sollution and begin releasing its power into my life on a daily basis. 

Sometimes, it's not what you do, but it is how you do it that seems to be most effective. Make sense? I hope so. 

Lydia Marsha of Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.

Written by Mister Promo | October 29, 2015

"Lydia Marsha is a dark-skinned Indian model who lives in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Her goal is to inspire dark skinned women and show them how gorgeous they truly are."

You want to live outside of the box? Then bloody hell do it. Don't just live by the words as though it's an amazing statement. Or as if it's a movement of people all walking side by side in the same direction.

It's true, this "society" does have a stronghold on many of our lives. There are a ton of magazines that will get you to believe that the words making up those silly articles are true. "The slimmer the waste, the sexy the body." "You are what you eat." "Beauty lies in the type of makeup you purchase." "7 sex positions to tone up your abs." "How you treat your partner in the sack will determine how long they in your life." Okay, well maybe that last one is true.

Forget about the lists. Forget about what others are doing. Forget about what you WON'T do. Instead do what you WANT to do. If skydiving is it. Do it. If strolling the beach in a 2-piece is it. Wear it. If rocking out to strange tunes is it. Rock out! And if you feel you are beautiful wearing the dark skin you were born in. Then you are.

Ladies, stop feeling sorry for yourself. There are many wars happening today. However, the worst war (today) is the one occurring within you. Don't you think it's time to form a peace treaty? Accept who you are. Don't change.

Just be you! Do whatever you decide without the influence of those around you. Think of whatever it is YOU want to do and do it.

MPsays, It's Over But You're Still Concerned.

Written by Mister Promo | October 13, 2015


We began innocent, with knowledge of first names and no background check. The first couple of months were exciting. Nothing was predictable. It was as if we were actors in a stageplay. Each meeting was eventful. A party as you would call it. It was a smooth and yet delightful engagement. This being, whenever we were together, working together. Before long, that would all change. Beginning with attitudes. Happiness became frustration as smiles turned to frowns. Daily communication grew to non-existent.

Yet, here it is, so much time has passed and I am still concerned. Thinking, wondering. How can I help, assist? Am I wasting my time? I'm sure that I am the only one holding on to a rope that is limp on the other end. My hand is already sore from these restraints. I believe it's time I loosen the grip and consider the option of letting go.

Wow! That wasn't hard. Next, my mission is moving on. This should be much easier. There are many other prospects much worthier of my attention and time. I must breathe life into my future and discontinue supplying air to my past. I cannot do it if I have any inkling of an idea that there could be something when there is nothing. So, from now on, I must believe wholeheartedly that there is absolutely no chance for us. Ever.  


Goodbye.

MPsays, October 15th. "HAPPY...! Well."

Writtern by Allen Mark | September 26, 2015


At times we look to certain dates as being special. These dates, they have a bit of significance. Birthdays, graduations, first dates, first introductions. More importantly, anniversaries. Anniversaries. 

We tend to care very much about the celebration of it rather than the actually meaning behind it. We care so much for it that when the reason behind the celebration is no longer there and or present, we think not of the date anymore as being special. In fact, it slowly becomes forgotten. It returns to being just a regular day again.

October 15th? Oh, it's just a Thursday.

MPsays, A Quote For A Day. (02)

Written by Allen Mark | September 20, 2015

Feel like another stroll down Memory Lane?
I used to send a quote by text every day.
Until one day, I stopped.
Here are a few more.
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3/4/15
"A mile is only but a marker or a stone.
You could pick it up and throw it.
Instead just make moves however you please.
Whether it's fast pace or slow motion."
- Allen Mark
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3-5-15
"Clear your mind, pray a little,
breathe deep and execute."
- Allen Mark
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3-6-15
"What goes up must come down.
But just remember, what comes down
doesn't always have to stay there."
~ Allen Mark
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3-7-15
"Sometimes the things I say and do
aren't always what I truly mean.
I can only try my hardest to be
the man you desire me to be."
- Allen Mark
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 3-8-15
"When you, so bad, want to yell out,
"ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!"
But you don't. Instead you live life
day to day until you naturally
conquer your trials and tribulations."
~ Allen Mark

MPsays, Cruising Is Fun."

Written by Allen Mark | September 2, 2015

It is amazing the things we allow ourselves to do once we put our minds to it. Especially when within the right company who is not only going to support us along the way but will also embark upon the journey with us. Fortunately I was blessed to have it all. For this, I am extremely thankful.

From August 23 - August 29 I was away, traveling with my mother on a Carnival Cruise. We boarded the ship in Miami. Set sail, made stops in Montego Bay, Jamica; the Grand Cayman Islands and Cozumel, Mexico. This was indeed an experience I will remember for the rest of my life. My mother possessed and expressed every emotion possible besides the negative ones, of course. This journey will definitely be tripped again. There is always something new to experience that was not experienced before.

We look forward to crossing all T's and dotting all I's. We have many more years ahead of us and thousands of cities to visit. The question I keep asking myself is, "where to next?" I know where I am off to next. Just as I placed my mind on the prize to reach my goal for this journey, I will do the exact same for the next.

Question is, what will you be doing while I will be completing my goals? Frankly, that is not for me to think about. My thoughts all lay in my own present and future. It really does not take much to figure out what is most important to you, turn it into a goal, and then strive to complete it. If you find difficulties in any of this, I do not know what to tell you.

Anyhow, cruising is fun. If you have never done this before, you should definitely consider booking your vacation today. In fact, do it now. Begin in Miami, FL and set sail from there.

What do you have to lose? Nothing.

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MPsays, Things We Lose Forever.

Written by Allen Mark | August 22, 2015

It is a tough thing, sometimes, to think of the past and reminisce on the thing you had. Even when it is still fresh and seems as though you can easily reconnect with it. When, in fact, you cannot. Because it is gone and will not be returning. Ever.

I feel like this sometimes. Which is one of the main reasons why this blog was created. I get to be open. Not only with myself but with others as well. I've come to accept that some things can never return to being the same. I am slowly becoming okay with that. I have come so far and have learned so much. Only to let it all go. But it must be done. For I cannot deal.

Guess you can say that I am being selfish. But aren't we all in some way?

Before I go and leave this topic alone, I will leave you with these fabulous photos which I have snapped myself. They are from a time long, long ago in May 2015 for sure.

I call this collection, "Things We Lose Forever."

Please press play while viewing.

We Fall Down - Donnie McClurkin

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Thank you very much for donating this time.

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PS

My God assures me a place in His house just so

long as I do right by Him in this living world.

Nothing is promised to me in this world

except eternal life in the hereafter.

MPsays, God Was Not Invited.

Written by Allen Mark | August 21, 2015


How does one expect to succeed when placed in any situation or take on any challenge if one does not invite God in?

There are many times where we as, faith in God, believers believe that we can do anything on our own and without the power of God. There is also an equal amount of times where we take on these feats and fail miserably every time. Well, why do we it?

I have no idea.

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MPsays, A Quote For A Day.

Written by Allen Mark | August 19, 2015

Take a stroll with me down Memory Lane.

I used to send a quote by text every day.

Until one day, I stopped.

Here are a few. 

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2-27-15
"Sometimes we look down on things
that seem too far and out of reach.
Yet just by sitting down the object
becomes closer to our seat. "
~ Allen Mark

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2/28/15
"The stranger things happen
to many of us in the dark.
Can you imagine what would happen
if we actually turned on the light?"
~ Allen Mark

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3-1-15
"The climb can be a bit strenuous at times.
However, the March might be less painful
and more accomplishing.
Think about it."
~ Allen Mark ;-)

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3/2/15
" A person who stands at 5.3 ft is picked
on daily by a person who is 6.1 ft.
I think it's clear who
the bigger person is."
~ Allen Mark

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3-3-15
"Sometimes what I envision my life to be
can only be seen by one person. Me."
~ Allen Mark

MPsays, Single and Enjoying It.

Written by Mister Promo | August 18, 2015

I have been single forever and a day. Until one night I decided to break the cycle for one gal. Only to realize, less than a year later, the two of us would not work. So, we "mutually" ended it. About 2 weeks pass, I'm over it. Funniest thing happen, I'm on YouTube listening to breakup songs when I begin to have "Oh Sh*t" moments. Because now all of these songs are starting to make sense. LMAO!

I have compiled a playlist of the songs that I raised an eyebrow to while listening.

Check it out. Hope you enjoy these songs just as I do. Who knows, if you just recently exited a relationship, maybe you will have "Oh Sh*t" moments too.

WE COULD BE "OH SH*T" SIBLINGS! LoL!

Oh Sh*t! Now I Get It. - YouTube Playlist
Oh Sh*t! Now I Get It. - YouTube

1. Gotye - "Hearts A Mess"
2. Muse - "Madness"
3. JT - "What Goes Around...Comes Around"
4. The Verve - "Bitter Sweet Symphony"
5. No Doubt - "Don't Speak"
6. Dido - "Thank You"
7. Amy Winehouse - "Back To Black"
8. Chris Brown - "Don't Judge Me"
9. Chris Brown - "Next To You" ft/ Justin Bieber
10. Lil Wayne - "Mirrors" ft/ Bruno Mars
11. Eminem - "No Love" ft/ Lil Wayne
12. Eminem - "Space Bound"
13. Taylor Swift - "I Knew You Were Trouble"
14. CeeLo Green - "F*CK YOU"
15. The All-American Rejects - "Give You Hell"
16. Stacie Orrico - "More To Life"
17. Stacie Orrico - "I'm Not Missing You"
18. Jesse McCartney - "It's Over"
19. Mike Posner - "Cooler Than Me"
20. T.I. - "Live Your Life" ft/ Rihanna
21. Nicki Minaj - "Pills N Potions"
22. Tupac - "Temptations"
23. Robin Thicke - "Lock The Door"
24. P.Diddy ft/ Ginuwine, Loon, Mario Winans - "I Need A Girl" (Part 2)
25. P.Diddy ft/ Usher & Loon - "I Need A Girl" (Part 1)
26. Hoobastank - "The Reason"
27. Linkin Park - "In The End"
28. Chris Daughtry - "Over You"
29. Maroon 5 - "She Will Be Loved"
30. Gotye - "Somebody That I Used To Know" ft/ Kimbra
31. Adam Sandler - "Piece of Sh*t Car"
32. R.E.M. - "Everybody Hurts"
33. R.E.M. - "Losing My Religion"
34. Richard Walters - "A.M."
35. Jerome Price - "Me Minus You"

MPsays, Words He Did Not Mean.

Written by Mister Promo | August 17, 2015


Was there ever a time where you have expressed yourself verbally and the words delivered was not the words you intended to say? Well, this happened to me and now things are "weird". It's kind of unfortunate because I feel as though I will never get the opportunity to explain myself. Simply because the time has passed and feelings have changed drastically.

Change. Humph. It's a funny word, change.
I do believe it's used very losely though.

- "I don't like this outfit. I think I'll change."
- "If you don't like me, oh well. I won't change for anyone."
- "Don't expect change to happen overnight,
you have to work for it."
Or my personal favorite.
- "You don't like the life you're living?
Well, wise up and make a change."

Many of us (mostly women) speak of this, change, as if it is a cool product that can be purchased in stores and worn like foundation. Then once its displayed evenly over the face, and matching the tones of their original complexion, it will suddenly activate and its power will begin to work in their lives.

No. LoL! Not going to happen that easy.

Although, for some, it is that simple.
While for others, it is not.

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You know what? I am in my comfort zone. I can say what I want here. I think I will express what I didn't get to.

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I'm thinking...

Never mind. {Sigh} I am afraid that if I say exactly what I meant to say, I'll receive a response. I'm not quite sure I'm ready to receive the words expressed in return.

Guess I'll just do what I intended to do in the first place and that was, keep it to myself.

MPsays, The Final Good Morning

Written by Allen Mark | August 15, 2015

There are times where
I would wake up a half hour early
Just to watch my phone.
I would press buttons to ensure
My device was working correctly.

View pics or watch Netflix
This way the time passes quickly.
Call me crazy but these are the things
I will most likely miss more
From this relationship ending.

There will always be good times
That linger within my mind.
Those good times will remain
Visions captioned from day to night
As thoughts to help pass the time.

A lengthy, winding path
Comes to an abrupt end.
Without instruction, guidance
Or redirection.
Just reset and begin again.

There was a time where
I would wake up early and be okay
While I watched my phone.
But not anymore because the final
Good morning was thrown away.

~ A. Mark ~

MPsays, Sun Shines Over Cold Water.

Written by Mister Promo| August 13, 2015

The temperatures are cold these days. This AC is useless. It appears as though I have to bring out the space heater to warm myself up. Yet it's August. Humph.

Why is it cold in the winter and hot in the summer anyway?

It has something to do with the Earth's axis and its tilt. In the summer months, the days are longer and the sun's rays are hitting the Earth at a slightly vertical angle. Meaning the light isn't distributed as much. Therefore the mass of energy resting upon any location increases.

However, in the winter months, the days are shorter and the sun's rays are hitting the Earth at a superficial angle. Meaning the light is distributed a lot more, therefore lessening the mass of energy that rests upon any location. (Everyday Mysteries)

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How do we force the heat remain?

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I'm thinking...

Okay, the only thing I could come up with is moving to a much warmer climate. LoL!

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Here's a question, can hot and cold become good friends? And if so, which will suffer more from the other's company?

Let's get technical for a minute and not just assume.

When I say hot I always think of the sun, so we will use Sun Li in terms of the "hot" friend. As for "cold" we will use Jack Frost.

Now, Sun Li's temperature, at her highest on Earth, is 56.7 degrees Celcius (134.06 degrees Fahrenheit). This was recorded at Greenland Ranch, Death Valley, CA, USA by GWR on July 10, 1913. While on her surface it is 5,778 degrees Kelvin (9940.73 degrees Fahrenheit). That's much hotter than THOT.

Now for Jack Frost. His tempurature, at his lowest on Earth, is -89.2 degrees Celcius (-128.56 degrees Fahrenheit). This was recorded on July 21, 1983 in Vostok, Antarctica. As for the universe, 3 degrees Kelvin (-454.27 degrees Fahrenheit). Last updated, Jan. 30, 2014 through Science at NASA.

Well, there you have the technicalities. Now onto assumptions. Back to my question.

Can Sun Li and Jack Frost become good friends? And if so, who will suffer more from the other's company?

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Join this discussion by leaving your comments below.

MPsays, Don't Leave Me.

Written by Mister Promo | August 12, 2015

"Don't leave, don't leave me girl. Please stay with me tonight. Stay... Stay... Stay right here with me forever."

- Blackstreet

What exactly does this mean? I'm thinking, whatever the reason your partner is leaving in the first place must mean that, to them, things aren't working. And if you are begging for them to stay and they succumb to your pleads and actually stay, they aren't really staying because they want to, they are staying because they feel pity for you. If it were me (on the "begging" end), I would be harsh saying something like, "You're leaving? Don't forget your sh^t." Or, "For real? After all of this and you're just going to leave? Well GTFO!"

There are many times we think we are seeing things in technicolor all the while in actuality it was straight black and white. I'm left, you're right. I'm down, you're up. I would give anything to be a sitting duck while you would prefer to see the world. We are opposite, yet I expect us to work.

No. LoL!

Am I horrible? Probably.

At this point do I care? Not really.

Someone once told me, "I'm in my 40's. I was born here, raised here, created a family here and eventually I will die here. But I am completely content with that. You, however, was not born here. You may have been raised here, but you will definitely not die here."

In other words, he was saying GTFO while you still can.

Well, I plan to do just that.

Whatever the true reason is for your partner departing is now their problem. It may seem as though they have the power over you in this situation. But they don't. In fact, they're the one who is staying. While you're the one who is actually leaving them.

MPsays, You Have To Realize Your Worth.

Written by Mister Promo | August 11, 2015

Its morning. What is the first thing you do? Most people slap the snooze button on the alarm clock and grab a few more minutes of sleep. Then when the alarm goes off again, they're dreading the rise up and the getting out of bed part. This because sleep is enjoyed more than being awake. 

Its been said that sleep is the cousin of death. I can see that.

Once you have risen out of bed. What's the next thing you do? You drag yourself to the bathroom to washup. All the while avoiding your reflection because the image in the mirror will stare back at you. Your reflection is a judge. Your reflection can be the worst judge toward yourself mentally, physically and verbally. This may happen daily. You explore your appearance and begin to ridicule yourself. What a great start to a negative day?

There is no coming back from this. The day is already ruined. The rest of your day will consist of bad decisions, tardiness, lack of time, feeling guilt, etc.

To make yourself feel worthy, you do an enormous amount of tasks for others. But it still does not fill the void you have for feeling worthy. You have built up stress, anger, doubt and sadness. Every possible emotion one could possess that is considered to be negative you have. You read motivational blogs and quotes that have worked for others, yet you do not understand why it does not work for you. You have all of the answers but lack the ability of how to apply them to your everyday life, make each stick and work for you. Change only works for you on a yearly basis not day to day. This is --- your normal.

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Its morning. What is the first thing you do? Open your eyes and sit up just ten seconds before the alarm clock sounds. This way you show the alarm clock whose boss. Get out of bed and immediately draw back the curtains. Allow the sun to shine abruptly through your entire bedroom. Stretch to ensure your entire body is fully awake. Then report to the bathroom to prepare yourself for the entire day to come. While you are washing away the bed stains from your face, look at yourself in the mirror and trace the outline of your face reciting how beautiful you are.

Conclude from washing to then head to your closet. Dress yourself in such a fashion that represents who you expect others to view you as. Society is definitely a cruel world to reside in. One may try his/her hardest to live outside of the box but at some point that box is going to be the one place to keep you sane.

All dressed and ready to leave the house. Pose one more time in front of the full length mirror. Ladies, blow a kiss to yourself. Men, lick one finger and smooth out that eyebrow. Then leave your home with your chest out and shoulders broad. Today will consist of whatever you design it to be just by using the inspiration from within your mind. The world is truly your oyster. In fact, whatever you would like to see inside an oyster when you open one, is exactly what you will see. As long as your mind is right, you will never experience sadness, doubt, anger and (or) stress. Actually, you will be questioning what all of that even means? This is --- my normal. 

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If none of this makes any sense, then you are probably living the life of the person in the first part of this post.

If you are nodding to every word and smiling then you are probably soaring high like the person in the second part of this post.

Know your worth. If you are comfortable with it, then remain the same. However, if you are not, then make the change. NOW!

How does one make that change? 

Only you can figure that out.