Was there ever a time where you have expressed yourself verbally and the words delivered was not the words you intended to say? Well, this happened to me and now things are "weird". It's kind of unfortunate because I feel as though I will never get the opportunity to explain myself. Simply because the time has passed and feelings have changed drastically.
Change. Humph. It's a funny word, change.
I do believe it's used very losely though.
- "I don't like this outfit. I think I'll change."
- "If you don't like me, oh well. I won't change for anyone."
- "Don't expect change to happen overnight,
you have to work for it."
Or my personal favorite.
- "You don't like the life you're living?
Well, wise up and make a change."
Many of us (mostly women) speak of this, change, as if it is a cool product that can be purchased in stores and worn like foundation. Then once its displayed evenly over the face, and matching the tones of their original complexion, it will suddenly activate and its power will begin to work in their lives.
No. LoL! Not going to happen that easy.
Although, for some, it is that simple.
While for others, it is not.
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You know what? I am in my comfort zone. I can say what I want here. I think I will express what I didn't get to.... ... ... ... ... ... ... .... ... ... ... ... ... ... ...
I'm thinking...
Never mind. {Sigh} I am afraid that if I say exactly what I meant to say, I'll receive a response. I'm not quite sure I'm ready to receive the words expressed in return.
Guess I'll just do what I intended to do in the first place and that was, keep it to myself.
Really???? You are going to keep us hanging like that??? You need to change that behavior! Walk into a quiet room..Press button..step back out a "changed" person..no one changes. They grow. They morph...they Do NOT metamorphosis. Each and every action, reaction thought process is a permanent brick in the wall we form...the only thing we CAN do is recognize that which we don't like and work on decreasing is power with us.......sounds good right??....... Really is a bunch of jibberish....we don't change we grow.
ReplyDeleteYeah, I'm just not ready to thoroughly share, I guess.
ReplyDeleteLoL! I can understand what you are saying.
So basically, you feel people are who they are and they will remain as such till they are no more. As for change, what we believe is a different way of living, than what we are used to, coming from a specific person isn't really a change but a mere unacceptance of one's self. So in turn, the person will learn and hopefully grow away from that way of living. Make sense?
Perhaps I should have better noted that some of my comments were sarcasm...I believe in growth but not complete change. Everything that happens to us causes a belief or behavior that becomes a party of who we are...it's always there, just may not be part of an active belief system. We need to talk more about this in person. I am greatly looking forward to it 😀
ReplyDeleteI have no idea how you became so knowledgeable over so many topics. But it's nice. We will definitely speak more of this in person.
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